Beyond Daydreams

We always imagine something we don’t have in our lives but always forget what we actually have, and here I am, Anjali, again with you. Today, my blog is kind of inspired by the lives lost through so many incidents nearby. We live in a world where the grass always seems greener on the other side. It’s easy to get caught up in daydreams about the things we don’t have—a better job, a bigger house, more friends, or even just a different life altogether. Social media feeds this longing, showing us curated snapshots of other people’s “perfect” lives, making it harder to appreciate what’s right in front of us. But what if the real treasure isn’t in what we lack but in what we already possess?

The Trap of “If Only” Thinking

Many of us fall into the habit of “if only” thinking. If only I had more money, if only I looked different, if only my parents understood me better, then I’d be happy. This mindset keeps us in a constant state of dissatisfaction, always reaching for something just out of grasp that is more into the unreal world and more attention to delusion, which is a very popular word nowadays. We become so focused on what’s missing that we overlook the value of what we already have—our family, our friends, our health, and the small joys of daily life. Every day, there is one thing we always regret: looking out the window, I have been watching. One person doesn’t have one leg nearby. Her wife was a support for him, and they both smiled and crossed the road. The main character of the man was his wife. He lacks a leg, but it doesn’t bother him to regret his situation. Then why us?

Regret and Realization: The Value of People After They’re Gone

One of the most painful consequences of this mindset is the regret that often follows loss. How many times have we heard stories of people who only truly appreciated their parents, siblings, or friends after they were gone after they left? What about the condition they were in before? Why regret if you had the chance to love them. It’s a universal truth: we tend to take the people closest to us for granted, assuming they’ll always be there. Only in their absence do we realize the depth of our connection and the irreplaceable role they played in our lives.

Managing Expectations: The Key to Contentment

Part of the struggle comes from managing expectations—both our own and those set by society. We’re told to aim high, to want more, to never settle. This is true; we always get to choose something that we don’t have, but what about which is nearby. It’s not meant for you; while ambition can be healthy, it can also lead to chronic dissatisfaction if we’re always chasing after what we don’t have. For those with limited resources or opportunities, this pressure can be especially damaging, leading to feelings of inadequacy or failure.

Instead, learning to manage expectations is crucial. This doesn’t mean giving up on dreams but rather finding a balance between aspiration and appreciation. It’s about recognizing that happiness isn’t always found in more, but often in enough.

Cherishing What’s Here, Now

It is always good for the things to buy more, but not for the people. Gratitude is a powerful antidote to the endless chase for more. When we start to notice and appreciate the people and things in our lives, we shift our focus from lack to abundance. This might mean taking a moment to thank your parents for their support, spending quality time with friends, or simply enjoying a quiet morning coffee. These small acts of appreciation can transform our outlook and deepen our sense of fulfillment.

Breaking the Cycle of Comparison

Not everyone is similar; everyone is doing their best in their field, in their work, and in their families. The Comparison is another thief of joy. When we constantly measure our lives against others, we set ourselves up for disappointment. The truth is that everyone has their own struggles and insecurities, no matter how perfect their life appears from the outside. By letting go of Comparison and focusing on our unique journey, we can find contentment in our own story.

Moving Beyond Daydreams

It’s natural to imagine a different life or wish for things we don’t have, and that’s why we are here. But if we spend all our time in daydreams, we risk missing out on the beauty of the life we’re living. The real challenge—and the real reward—comes from embracing what’s here, now. By cherishing our relationships, managing our expectations, and practicing gratitude, we can move beyond daydreams and find fulfillment in the present.

In the end, the life we have is the only one we can truly live. I can only say this, It’s always about the measurement; the Comparison could break from inside; the people around are really trying so hard to be with you. Don’t ignore them; they run for you, they love you, they try to talk with you, they connect constantly to be in touch with you, they try to make you happy in every moment they have. The moments we create are always special. If you don’t think so, open your gallery; I bet you that you will forget the time in the memories you have created. This is time; in every picture you will get, you will be time travel. Be thankful for the people you have; you don’t have an infinite life to spend with them.