Simply Private

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 Hey, I am here again with new motivation and new learnings. In the era of social media, everyone is stalking your life through photos and videos, So I started it, too. Not stalking making videos on YouTube channels. Hahaha! Jokes apart. 

Hey everyone, I am back again with the simply private blog; yeah, the name of my blog is merely private, which is very important in the days of social media, digital marketing and many more. I have been looking at so many accounts on social media, the articles for making me more perfect, but I understood that my life is already perfect without that; I need only sleep, not more than that. Everyone needs it, but not everyone is taking it. 

Let’s start with the beginning. I know my blogs are too boring, and nowadays, these blogs are not in the trend. Still, it is very simple to understand that this is my choice and this is simply private. 

Private or personal life is very important for everyone; spending time with the family and quality time with yourself is of utmost importance in life where everyone is dealing with high stress or daily task incomplete issues. Everything could be solved because you are living and loving your life, but some people don’t understand their self-value and do not spend some moment with their us. I am not saying every day you should do the same thing, spending time with your own self; then you will also ask me what is the purpose behind this? So, yes, spending time with your own beauty, flaws, and thoughts is the main purpose of your life; if this is incomplete, then you are not living your life. You are just taking and passing to the other one. There is always less time to spend with yourself, but sometimes our hearts need time with themselves rather than with others. “Your life is not a race”- you can take a break whenever you want and create your own space where you must spend everything on yourself. Sometimes, mental health issues and therapies come with a lack of time to yourself because you don’t have enough time to give. Mental health issues also result in a lack of confidence, mental thoughts, fear, and anxiety, which is common nowadays throughout private life. Mental health has been increased due to the private life has been decreased. Some people start their day in a rush and sleep in a rush; with their whole rush, they sleep only 3-4hrs in a 24hrs, which is not good for the health and mind either. From the analysis I have reached with the research of the private life, quality time for yourself is very important for everyone. Atheist, once you must try and check the results for yourself. 

You must be asking me...? what should we do while giving time to ourselves- then the answer is Do not think, Do not panic, Just relax, keep your distance from your phone at least 1 hr. each day, Meditate, Draw, Paint, Read and many more as suitable according to your hobbies. Furthermore, I want to include this – Hobbies are never related to the mobile phone, such as listening to music, watching series, etc. These are not hobbies; these are addictions that you are addicted to. 

Moreover, a Private life is an option to spend your life with calm and less stress; lives have become an uncountable race where some people are seeking past people, some are running for their family's future, some are working on their relationships, some are creating their life like hell to work always which is not for themselves. All these activities are for others. I know everything is important, but self-love is a must when you start loving to spend time with yourself; no one will stop you from what you are doing with your life. You are doing something good for your life and money-making procedures but not for your personal work-life balance, which is more important than anything else in this world. 

However, At last, I want to say one thing to all my readers: self-love is far better than running behind something which is not yours, which is not permanent. Self-love is permanent; if you start loving yourself, the world, the job, the family, and their future will begin loving you. 

From my experience, I have been loved/liked by too many people in my family, friends, and everyone I guess whom I met due to my good behaviour and smiling nature because of my self-love. So, start focusing on yourself, your private life and self-love, which is first. 


Thank you readers, Stay in Touch!


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