Goodbye , Things !

Hey everyone , Today I am here with my new topic - goodbye, things. What does it means ?  simply saying - byes to the things that made you feel sad, and what made you feel like nothing sometimes . There are so many things which don’t make any sense in your life, doesn’t mean to be there with you not around you or  packed with you . I think bad memories are usually the things which are still with you after those people are not. We don’t use them but , we just pack them as a bad thing in your life, but these bad memories needs to be free, it’s not meant for you; there are so many reasons to explain this topic easily and in a good manner  

If it’s meant for you, it won’t be toxic. It won’t bring out your insecurities or your fears or the worst in you because it will bring peace into your life and into your heart. If it’s meant for you, it won’t feel like a burden. You won’t have to explain to anyone why it’s not as bad as they think it is and you won’t have to go to sleep wondering if you’re lying to yourself because you’d be sure of it . You’d be sure that’s right for you.

If it’s meant for you, it won’t feel like war. A war with yourself because you’re letting It drag on or because you can’t get out it. A war with your friends because they canal that you’re settling . A war with love because part of you knows that it shouldn’t be this hard but the other part just can’t give it up .

It its meant for you , you won’t have to constantly question if it is .

You won’t have to look for signs or ask for advice or look for confirmation that it’s right . you’d just know . it will feel like home . It will make you feel safe . It will give you one less thing to worry about . it will be healthy for you .

If it’s meant for you , you won’t have to chase after it . you won’t have to try too hard or turn your life upside down for it to work . You won’t have to lose yourself so can keep it .

If it’s means for you , it won’t break your heart . There may be disappointments or letdowns or conflicts but it will never break your spirit , it will never close your heart off and it will never let you suppress your innermost  feelings .

Because what it’s meant or you doesn’t come around very often , but when it does , when it’s finally yours after everything you’ve endured and everything you’ve been through , it comes like a wave washing away the dirt , gives you some unfavorable choices and the favorable endings but not ending anymore  . it comes to fix what you broke  , it comes to heal you .

Because what’s meant for you is something god has chosen for you only and you can hardly ever go wrong with that , their choices ; their habits and their surrounding always gives some type of positivity every time .

Things break permanently with temporary life , and I think it is not always necessary to be okay with the things which is useless for your present living , and future lives . Good things are useful , but what the good & useful things breaks you usually with the temporary usage . After all  this , I came up with conclusion that; it’s a right time to say ; “goodbye things” !

Thank you !

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Comments

  1. Well thought and nicely expressed.. We learn a lot from our bad memories and experiences but we need not carry them with us for all the time.. We need to get over with them and move ahead with the learnings for a brighter and more focussed present to shape and build a better future..

    I always feel enthralled reading such thought provoking blogs and these thoughts are truly inspiring for a person of any creed.. Keep writing and enlightening us with more such articles.. :D

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  2. thank you so much for your lovely thoughts on my blog !

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