Stuck on Security

Do you know what security is ? I think what makes you secure every time without any doubt . but what if your good security becomes your jail security . hey everyone today my blog is about security make your life suck .

Let’s talk about security ? security is about protecting ourselves about from the things which is basically not good for us , one thing more this is just a myth that some things are not good for you . we can think ourselves what is good for us  , actually everything what we don’t know hurts . yeah its good to know what is good for you or what is not , how to know about this is only when you will fight from that situation . Security is what you think is , not others think about you .

Now let’s come on thing what is secure relationship and insecure relationship : First , Secure relationship is all about trust and bond what makes your relationship more anxious and makes you alive everyday . that doesn’t make any sense of security in this relationship , yes you secure you and your partner but only with the time not everytime . sometimes in the starting both the people makes the relationship secure and after that longer relationship become more insecure it becomes  .

Now let’s come on insecure relationship , the relationship where you can’t stop your ego and your thinking is more important than other one , insecurities is all about always asking about the things  , jealously , trust issues , and other problems in relationship everyday . Insecurities makes the person in the mind that they will lose their partner , but reality is they are making relationship ruined itself .

Now literally what happens in everything we do , in secure relationship , as I explained . This is good to care about each other, thinking about each other , and make yourself happy but what if your relationship becomes your irritation , your reason of frustration . Why to think about that person who always makes you irritate with his thinking, or make your good mood in to worse mood . I wish the people who think everything will be alright in the end , I must say one thing to you guys ; nothing will be alright as you know the people who is , will always be like that . yes some people changes with times but not everyone has that capabilities to change because of their relationship . nowadays people in the relationship is only for tag , that they are in relationship which is really fu*k to hear that .

How many are really serious first think about this , then make your decision for your partner . if you really love then set them free , they will secure themselves . if they want your help they will say , and If they are not saying then your bond is not strong . don’t blame your partner for it  . Make your own rules , don’t try to restrict your partner for it .

One thing more guys , apart from this topic , if you are in the relationship , don’t be insecure with people , if your partner choose you that’s only because you become what others never . don’t be the person like she/he never wants . your relationship is for good memory not for fights . please be good and make yourself with partner .

Thank you so much guys , be safe . stuck with my blog with more interesting topic .