Self respect or you

Hey Guys, how are you? So did you ever faced this situation in Which you had to choose between your self respect and important person in your life ? 

 If yes Then with this here come on my blog  where we will talk about what is self respect  and how we gain this by own, and how we will get this ? and the last thing what I meant to say with my topic named “self-respect or you”; So with a warm and pleasure wishing .  

What is self-respect?  this is what we obey or respect ourselves more than others that’s what is important to have then to give others.

In this world of rejection, violence and disrespect; we always need to find our own respect ourselves, that’s what my topic is: “self-respect or you” is a type of choosing our self-respect or a person in your life, doesn’t mean we can’t choose both but most probably people think we are dependent on them as we are not. In that case, we need to choose between them. one more thing never choose the person over your own self-respect which you gain without them. No need to lose at any cost and how much we tried to gain no one will ever be done for us . Self-respect is a mirror if you lost once you can’t stick it again . you need to buy it again and make it comfortable as your old mirror was. I never lose my self-respect at any cost if I want to leave a people in my life, losing a people made you sad or cry but afterward, everything will be normal but once your self-respect went the person you choose in your life will not respect you so be careful before you choose.

Don’t let other people’s opinion about you, and control your decision, many times people started giving their opinion in your life which is not done, don’t listen to them because their life was different from yours, don’t let them control your personal decisions on you, if you do this; then they become your speech giving people in your life so whenever you will be confused they will drag you on their decision.

Don’t speak badly for yourself in front of anyone; if you think after giving yourself a bad tag person, people will respect you, so you are going on the wrong direction because people never give sympathy; they always laugh on your back and says “he doesn’t love or respect himself then why we do”, and your respect will below. Be confident don’t dump yourself; if you are thinking you are bad then don’t share with anyone.  

Don’t let anybody force you to be or do anything you don’t want to do or be simple to gain them, this line is very important to see it properly, don’t ever do anything that you do only for the attention or some type of approvals. no, if you do this, you will be simply a person with tags called as can do anything for us with price tags of your work. don’t work for them; work for yourself . your work will be priceless if you will work for yourself . don’t lose your respect because of others.

Don’t violate your own moral code; people usually think they have done badly in something or worst; past made them guilty again and again . they used to listen to others because they can’t improve themselves please don’t do this because don’t let another handle you and your life, this is for you guys if you are going to do or doing: “everyone has their own steering please don’t hand over to others so if they might have an accident with you and you injured badly”.  drive yourself so you can get path yourself and come home safely after your long ride.

Those were the don’ts in your self-respect part, so don’t do this please if you want to gain yourself

After all, this as we always talk about what we need to do for gaining, as we talked about don’ts, we will also talk about do’s in this self-respect and here we are :

Obey or respect others, as we say what we give, we got received.

Be quick to forgive anyone, this means that doesn’t matter your fight is smaller or bigger, you should forget it quickly and be as you are a flag of peace.

Be friendly, don’t be choosy about your friends talk to everyone,  be polite and help others you will get your respect to the next door.

Hang out with positive vibes, many people are positive or negative you will never get one type of group always, everyone is different but your vibes should be always positive then it doesn’t matter with whom you are standing you will always spread a positive vibes

Make a good decision, this is very simple to do, be careful and think about yourself you always make it as happen

Understand your  self-worth, which is most important in these tips know your own worth so you can get the options in self-respect   

Now we came in the ending of my blog which was all about self-respect, my tips are for you, doesn’t mean you have to follow only these things this is only the main idea, so you can create it much better ideas for yourself but never ever choose without thinking about yourself because you are the one not everyone is like you.

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