Boundaries

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Ever feel the boundaries around you ? yes then this is for you people . Hello everyone , welcome here again .

Boundaries, I wonder why this word get discovered because people use this as different , actually they don’t the meaning of it that’s why .

do you know about Romeo & Juliet love story ? Exactly everyone watched . but what inspiration got from that story i.e. love that’s all , then you must see the things explained the story of one boy and girl who don’t the limits of love , after all their families hated each other , then also they loved and they proved themselves as a best loved couple . what if Juliet said not to talk to the other girls rather than trusting each other . their story got unsuccessful like yours . this is best example that how to fight with your love from the world rather than fighting each other . you will never get to know about the real love stories got successful . these are the secrets – not setting them free but give freedom so if she will come to you ; she never feel unsatisfied from the freedom and then at last she used to choose the freedom over you .

boundaries are always been a big issues of all the couples , because partner don’t know how to handle the love .

do you know about cocaine? the problem is we’re finding out the romantic love is kind of cocaine , similar to cocaine . reacts the same parts of your brain as cocaine do , gets you high and make you feel good for a while but also creates as many problems as it solves , as does cocaine .

there of 2 types of forms in love – healthy form of love and unhealthy form of love .

unhealthy love is always based on who they escape and ignore the problems through their emotions for each other , which is similar to not interested for long term relationship , they are actually using the each other for an escape that’s all .

Healthy love is based on two people sharing their problems with each other and take responsibility .

Where there is healthy relationship , there will be clear boundaries between two people and their values , I mean they understand each other and their boundaries , when their next step will .

sometimes people are very high like explained before as cocaine , they are not in their control they used to take always wrong step and then why they come in reality it’s too late to handle everything ; they try to escape the problems to other one which is not good for a while .

these people don’t understand about boundaries , they think  boundaries make people get to know about where they are , but no guys this Is all about insecurities or not in the state of mind , don’t make a boundaries because you are only insecure in the relationship , the moral will be too bad if you will do this . When love is true , she will never leave you ; better not to bound anyone to anything please ! It's deep , understand if you don't want to leave him/her like this ❤️

thank you so much .    


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