Insecurities

“People with most beautiful heart seems to have the most insecurities”- from this  you already get to know what I mean to say in this blog , so hello guys welcome to my blog again with new topic of discussion which named according to the problem or more possessive people nowadays .

Today we will talk about how people get insecure with the situation in their own lives or with other people , how they overreact on that situation and so on .  so let’s start with why this insecurities occur ?

Most of us feel insecure most of the time . this happened because the kind of childhood you had , past experiences , recent incidents , experience of failure or negative beliefs about yourself , or having critical partner can all contribute to insecurity .

Some of insecurities based on failure or rejection in any type feeling like the biggest negative contributor happiness is the ending of a relationship followed by breakups , job loss and negative health events because we don’t give ourselves time to heal adapt a new enviourment , we don’t reach out for help from any member of your family for distraction and comfort , and also we don’t try to make new goals in our lives so we can forget our past .

Next insecurities comes with lack of confidence because social anxiety ( nervousness )  and this happens in family functions , gatherings , interviews or dates .

what does it mean : The fear of being judged by other people around us and it makes us feel anxious and self-conscious also you may avoid social situations , experiences anxiety when you participate in social events or feel self conscious and uncomfortable around them ,the past experiences can feed your sense of not belonging , not feeling important , interesting or just not be good enough , you also want to be alone all the time with your social connectivity on your cell phones , you never want to be interacted with anyone .

Insecurities comes in relationships too , in every relationship we have insecurities type of possessive , protective behavior , in this case we also make unforgettable mistakes . this cause divorce and breakup , those who have difficulty forming relationships or meeting others because of insecurity may become too shy or scared to face anyone at all , which can lead to distancing form in general .

We also don’t listen to our partner if he/she is saying truth , we always try to make us loyal and another as a liar . In these things people may avoid social distancing  where they are going to be in nervous or not answerable situation , we also used to find everything about them to make them a liar or we feel like they are cheating on us . these things mostly happen in love or attraction kind of things , where you can’t control yourself from feeling anxiety , and also we don’t want to listen anyone . we can solve this problem by interaction a mental solving people !

That’s all about my blog about insecurities , thank you for reading my blog and please comment if you feel like I had forgot something this and you can also email me on this address anjalisharma110800@gmail.com .