Comparison over Choices

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 Hello beautiful people , welcome to my blog guys this is the second part of  my blog which is connected through previous one that how comparison is basically connected with choices , We always choose best out of the worst that doesn’t mean what you don’t choose Is bad , this is like we are not comfortable enough with those choices at that time ; we also we choose good for us doesn’t mean it’s good for everyone .

What we compare is things to things , as well as people with another . For example we always compare ourselves from others like why they are good from you , why they are having all friends , nowadays people is having more interaction with people ; which is more important for other people to judge or to choose from you to another for example more controversial having more friend and more choosing probability .  

Now come on the main things what we are discussing from starting of the blog, comparison over the choices as my blog topic is . People more often compare other who share different types of attributes (like: age, gender, or society ) like we choose everything match ourselves and our values which makes a big comparison between those whom you rejected because you don’t like . Which is very common in every human being !

Many people make unreasonable comparisons to others who have achieved at unusually high levels , causing them a great deal of nervousness about their own progress in life . these evaluation can promote judgmental , biased  and also about comparison over the choice . 

Now let’s start with how you compare one person to another person? First thing  we always compare a person with qualities , about their intelligence , and more important in our list which is about their behavior ! okay what behavior is like let me explain with one example : In a subjective class , we always use to sit with a mind &  intelligent classmate around us , not like backbencher or someone who disturb in a middle of the class this is the basic comparison between intelligent or backbenchers . that’s it and these things happens in every path of our life from whom with need to choose one thing from 2 ways , that’s what choice.   

There are many type of theories based on comparison but I will not explain just basic things about People make all kinds of judgments about themselves, and one of the key ways that we do this is through social comparison, or analyzing the self in relation to others. And we can also stop this comparison from other as doing things like making friends  without judging , no more choices between the people only with the things please , stay connected to my blog and wait for latest blog , thank you so much for reading . 

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